Supplementary Report Concerning MB And Her Behaviour
By: AH (Victim)
This afternoon (probably late 2023, 4pm) MB tapped on my car window and politely asked if I would redirect one of the cams pointing at her gate.
I said of course I would providing she redirected a spotlight of theirs pointing at our front door.
There was mutual agreement. (Note that the spotlight still hasn't been pointed away.)
Note: It is easy to assume that this is nothing more than a neighbour 'spat' getting out have hand. Nothing could be further from the truth. This victim of the gross antisocial behaviour, physical threats and violence is a fully trained NLP pratitioner. Police force training for handling difficult situations calmly and sensibly is often delivered by NLP trained officers.
I used this as an opportunity to open up the subject of LC's persistent reappearances. I said the reason for the CCTV cams pointing in their direction was always because of LC. She was told that he is being reported to the police every time he appears. I told her this was on the advice of Victim Support.
She said that this was an issue between LC and me. I said that I was very surprised and very upset that he had appeared just a few days after the assault in her garden and that this was done repeatedly. I made it very plain that I was very unhappy about this and that he is a very bad man.
I pointed out that I was very surprised at how easily she had believed him when he lied to her about my being the aggressor at the first altercation in 2021. I said he is a known coercive controller and harasser and that he began to do it to me. He eventually assaults me as if he is acting as your bouncer I said. And then he continues to work here.
I repeated that the cameras are for him and him alone. I also pointed out that I have a body worn camera which I will use to gather evidence of wrong doing.
Whilst this was going on I was observing her responses. She was generally appearing polite but there was no evidence of contrition, no empathy. Her judgement was clearly swayed by LC. There was no attempt at an apology for getting things so wrong. There was no appreciation that she had broken norms of behaviour and no consideration for other people's wellbeing. She kept playing down the court drama by repeatedly saying it was now in the past. I reinforced my position that fundamentally it was very much an issue of the present day whilst he reappeared.
What is clear is that she demonstrated no feelings like any other normal human being would have done.
My initial reaction that there was something about her that was very wrong in October 2021 was correct.
This was a very useful interaction. It confirmed a lot. She has been confronted. Although she showed little emotion she wouldn't underneath be at all happy about this.
I now believe beyond all reasonable doubt that MB has come under the influence of LC who is definitely a psychopath. Her pleasant behaviour changed. She likes him and makes excuses for him. He has a criminal record for violence but she believes that he is innocent of his crimes. LC recently attacked her neighbour but she refuses to acknowledge his wrong doing. She became for a while uncharacteristically antisocial.
The situation aligns with many of the warning signs of someone being influenced by a psychopath.
Her change in personality: A psychopath's manipulative tactics can cause a shift in a person's behaviour. Her previously pleasant demeanor becoming antisocial is concerning.
Her making excuses: Psychopaths are skilled at twisting narratives. The defence of the psychopath's violent actions, despite evidence, suggests manipulation is at play.
Her ignoring obvious red flags: Criminal history for violence is a major red flag. Her dismissing it raises concerns about the influence she's under.
He will have attempted to isolate her although this less apparent. That said she has used similar isolating language recently. Psychopaths often try to isolate their victims from supportive people. This could explain why she has become defensive.
The odd thing about all of this is that MB has bowed to my pressure although it took a lot of doing. The start of all of this was the decking which was way too big for the space and needed planning permission which they didn't apply for.
Using the new decking was accompanied by a lot of noise, often late at night, with dogs barking and the complete overuse of their BBQs which covered us in persistent smoke.
I applied the necessary pressure and by July 2022 had got them to stop. Indeed they have now moved everything they used as far away as they possibly could and there is now less noise than there's ever been.
The only thing that stands out is their use of LC. He, I am convinced, controls her, as he also does with Johan.
The CCTV cam remains pointing away but if LC reappears it returns to a position which she will not like.
It has subsequently had to be returned to its previous position due the JB & MB choosing to have him back. They know he's a threat to us. What a shocking decision to make given the history of their behaviour.
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